HELLO, MY NAME IS
OBSIDIAN XIU
(they/them)
📋 Lifecoach 📍Kansas City, MO 💬 English 🌐 Online

I aim to offer support as you navigate life's joys and challenges and create a pathway towards meeting your personal goals. As we work together, I hope to share tools and skills that encourage confidence in your own strengths and abilities and to hone in anywhere you'd like to see shifts. With me, counseling is a collaborative and creative process. My approach is always curiosity and non-judgment. Whether we are focusing on trauma, abuse, grief, interpersonal conflicts, or life changes and big decisions, I am here to encourage you as you find clarity and healing.
I am a patient and loving person and come from a trauma-informed care background as a survivor myself and through specific training as a certified trauma and resilience counselor. I am first gen chinese and mixed race, agender, chronically ill, a widow, and autistic. I work well with those who experience trauma, grief, gender feelings, chronic poverty and homelessness, queer relationships, open relationships, substance use or proximity to substance use, and much more. Please feel free to browse my website to find out more about me and my approach. Look forward to hearing from you!
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Qualifications
🛋️ Practicing for <1 year
🎓 BA from Evergreen with focus on trans competent pregnancy care, the history of midwifery, and gynecology; trauma and resiliency life coaching
My Practice At A Glance
🗒️ Modalities: Attachment based, mindfulness based, trauma focused
👥 Clientele: I see adults including QTPOC living with chronic illness, survivors of csa and narcissistic abuse, folks navigating homelessness; as well as adolescents and young adults, and those with relationship to substances (use or proximity)
🧩 Specialities: Trauma, anxiety, dissociative disorders, life transitions, queer relationships, and autism
Finances
Insurance: Not Accepted
Private Pay: $20-100 per session (accepts CashApp and PayPal)
Client Inquiry Form
Use this form to contact Obsidian Xiu. Don't be shy. Here are some tips:
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Briefly explain who you are, and what brings you here.
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By submitting this form, you state that you understand that all information gathered during counseling services is confidential. Your provider may have other mandatory reporting requirements under their licensure, which they will discuss with you in the first session. But our values include first engaging with alternatives to reporting including utilizing the enclosed safety plan and community resources before any systems involvement.